I have never agreed with people who say that we cannot learn or teach the creative arts. since I believe that creativity is part of every human experience, I cannot support the idea that there are only a few creative souls. We all have the creative spark--the fact is that our society does much to dampen our creative enthusiasm . Sometimes teachers are guilty of discouraging students by telling them that they have no talents. To borrow a phrase that Pope Francis has used in another context--WHO AM I TO JUDGE.
We all have talents --the job of teachers is to help those who are in their classes to discover their talents and nurture them. Self-expression is not meant only for the best--it is for everyone. Remember in the New Testament the story of the talents--Jesus speaks most against the person who buries his talent in a field--That is the only wrong thing to do with talent--to bury it and not use what you have been given. by God or by Nature or just your unique DNA expressing itself. You pick your belief --but it all adds up to the fact that you are the keeper of your talents. USE THEM UP..
Saturday, March 8, 2014
Wednesday, March 5, 2014
SMUDGED
It seems I am often starting this blog over. Like me it is flailing trying to figure out what I should or can be in a circumstance where my choices are coming up against my physical limitations.
I just re-read Tennyson's poem abour Odysseus setting out again in old age I will post a portion it here:
I just re-read Tennyson's poem abour Odysseus setting out again in old age I will post a portion it here:
Free hearts, free foreheads—you and I are old;
Old age hath yet his honour and his toil;
Death closes all: but something ere the end,
Some work of noble note, may yet be done,
Not unbecoming men that strove with Gods.
The lights begin to twinkle from the rocks:
The long day wanes: the slow moon climbs: the deep
Moans round with many voices. Come, my friends,
’Tis not too late to seek a newer world.
Push off, and sitting well in order smite
The sounding furrows; for my purpose holds
To sail beyond the sunset, and the baths
Of all the western stars, until I die.
It may be that the gulfs will wash us down:
It may be we shall touch the Happy Isles,
And see the great Achilles, whom we knew.
Tho’ much is taken, much abides; and tho’
We are not now that strength which in old days
Moved earth and heaven, that which we are, we are;
One equal temper of heroic hearts,
Made weak by time and fate, but strong in will
To strive, to seek, to find, and not to yield.
He says that though much is taken much abides. This emphasis on what we have left in life is important to me. It is the attitude I am trying to take to consider again the great value of my husband who has dementia. Much has been taken from him, but there is still something wonderful left and that seems to be the core of his goodness and simplicity and fidelity.
That does not mean that I am not still annoyed with his repetitive questions and lack of memory, but I stop myself and admire the ways he still trys to contribute. He is always trying to make things better. This trait has been in the forefront for 44 years of marriage. When I focus on all that we still ahve, I feel a steadying hand in mine and a deep sense that all will be well.
This Ash Wednesday I recall the meaning of that dark smudge on the foreheads --it is the mark of our mortality--the source of all our anxiety. But also it is a reminder that we believe in One who took on human form and endured the most extreme aspects of human pain to show us that Death cannot extinguish the soul. Death shall have no Dominion.
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